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If you continue doing what you are doing today, what will your life look like in 5 years?

Ultimately, it gets down to defining what is most important to you. Money is a resource, it is what you do with it that counts. Time is a gift, it is what you do with it that counts.

If you want something to change, you must make a change.


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Others Are Our Greatest Teachers, if We Let Them Be

Yesterday I was in conversation with a close friend when I said, out-of-the-blue, “I imagine that felt a little like someone spitting at you.” It was the first time, in a long time, that I remembered living that reality. As a teenager, my mom regularly spat at me. It was her way of accentuating her feelings of disgust, disappointment or rejection. I think I had blocked that memory.


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Behind every behavior is a person with:

a unique story,

a unique history,

a unique belief system,

a unique longing,

unique wounds,

unique thoughts,

a unique soul.

If we could embody what the world looks like from his/her perspective, the behavior makes perfect sense… And we possibly would behave the same way.

I went to a workshop recently and was blown away at the number of people who shared that deep down inside they questioned their worth.


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A major section in my book is the subject of opening our hearts—living in connection. Relationships are such a huge part of the pleasure and wonder of life. And when things aren’t right, it can affect all other areas of life.

If you saw my video after Valentine’s day, I shared how my husband and I had experienced some major stress between us when I went on a working bing for a couple of weeks,


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“NO TWO PEOPLE HAVE EVER MET”

That’s right. You heard me right. I don’t know the true originator of that concept, but when I adopted it with curiosity I experienced a transformation in myself and in my relationships.

I HAVE NEVER MET MYSELF. I discover new things about myself all the time, things change inside me in an instant when I have an insight or paradigm shift, and I can choose to reinvent myself in any given moment.


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Want to create what feels like AN IRON-CLAD STRENGTH OF CONNECTION in a relationship? Eliminate unspoken expections and instead make agreements.

What beautiful, meaningful, sacred connection can be created in our relationships and friendships.

  • Agreeing to each take personal responsibility to speak what is necessary to feel “whole” in the relationship.
  • Agreeing, as the listener, to not hold it against the speaker as they are sharing openly, but instead create a safe place to be heard without judgment or accounting of hurts.


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ROI or “Return On Investment” should be a top criteria for evaluating what to spend your time doing for income producing activities. ROITEE is what I call “Return on Investment of Time, Energy and Effort.” What are you spending your time on? Are you passionate about it or even enjoy it? Life is too short to spend it in pursuit of the mighty dollar. Through my Signature Program, I help individuals tap into the latent talents,


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